I find it rather alarming to watch the way that so many young men today struggle so painfully with even the most basic of social interactions with their female counterparts. Perhaps this is why so many women get fed up with their boyfriend or young husbands and end up leaving them.
So what is wrong with young men today? Why are they so terrible at maintaining relationships or even getting female attention in the first place? This is no doubt due to all of the time that they spend watching television, playing video games, and of course texting away on their ever present smart phones. All this electronic media is no doubt detrimental.
So, as a favor to the younger generation I thought I’d post a few of my biggest tips I have learned about how to have better relationships. My tips are more for men looking to meet a girl, so if you are a man looking to rekindle a relationship that has died out see this Respark The Romance review.
My first tip is that you should always put a lot of effort into your physical appearance. This will of course sound completely obvious to any intelligent person, but if you look at the way that these 20-something morons are dressing these days you will see that this is something that the vast majority are completely over looking. So many of these man-boys are dressing like either total sissies, or they are dressing like inner-city high school students with the baggy jeans, baseball caps and atrocious tent-like t-shirts. Truly disgraceful!
Next, it is important to always pay women genuine compliments. This is truly a lost art, and let me tell you, it can really do the trick! You see, women like guys who appreciate them and pay attention to them in a courteous, respectful manner. The fact that you noticed something that you found particularly attractive about a woman and then were thoughtful enough to tell her about it will certainly score you some serious brownie points. Just make sure that your compliment is respectful, so don’t tell her that you like her womanly curves, or anything like that.
Tip number 3 is to be decisive. One of the things women complain about the most (when it comes to men) is that so many guys are so wishy-washy and incapable of making decisions. That said, when you are talking to a young lady you would like to invite out with you for a date be sure to clearly state what your intentions are and be direct about it. Tell her that you would like to have her join you for a fine dinner at a nice restaurant, and arrange to pick her up at her home so that you can drive her to the venue. Many young men these days have no idea how to set up a proper date, and as a result the only women in there lives are the animated female characters in their idiotic video games.
Getting a date seems easy, but the question is how come no one is lining up to ask you out? This could be caused by a variety of factors such as your lack of availability, low self-esteem, bad habits, or other things that you do not notice.
How come guys do not ask you out?
This is a question that is not often asked by women because they are too afraid to recognize their own faults and are too proud to question themselves. Here are a few things that you should take note of as reasons as to why guys do not ask you out:
One of the main reasons you do not seem dateable is that you seem unavailable. You may be too busy, too distracted, or too high maintenance to get asked out on a date. Loosen up a bit and make time to meet other people. The older you get the harder it will be to find a suitable partner. And if you want to meet a guy that you can spend forever with, you need to take this stuff seriously!
One of the Guys Syndrome
Hanging out with your guy friends is not a bad idea, but their familiarity with you will lower your dating potential. Guys do not want another buddy who will watch sports with them or hang out and get a cold beer they already have their guy friends for that. Keep your feminine side and still hang out with your guy friends to make you dateable in the eyes of other guys or maybe even your friends.
Dressing the Part
Maybe one of the reasons why you don’t get asked out is the way you dress. Show some skin and be confident in your own body. You do not have to be a Playboy model to catch attention. Show a more confident you by dressing with confidence. Guys like a woman who is brimming with confidence.
And, perhaps it will help you feel a bit better to realize that men too struggle in this area. Sure that guy might seem to be in total control and have his choice of women, but maybe he had to study some training program on how to talk to girls like this one from PRWeb.com in order to become so smooth with the ladies!
Attracting men is not as difficult as you may think. Men are simple beings. Well, compared to women at least, they are simpler. Making them attracted to you is really more about the right ways to attract them. Having said this, there are not really a lot of new ways to successfully attract men, which have not already been covered. Be yourself, dress and look in an appropriate, yet attractive manner, become a great listener, etc. These are just some of the ways which have already been covered by countless other write-ups in the past with regards to the topic of attracting men. However, there may be one particular tip which has not really been widely explored yet. This tip, no matter how basic, no matter how standard, and no matter how “old-fashioned” it may be, is the ultimate way to attract the right men, for you. This tip, is none other than the truth.
Any, and every great thing, whether it be a relationship, a marriage, a partnership, a business, heck, even a government or country, is only made great, if the center of it all, is the truth. Ever heard of the expression, “…and the truth shall set you free…” That expression has never been truer than any other expression out there. If you make sure to remain true, not only to yourself, but to that man you are gunning to attract, then initial attraction matters little. He will surely, and undoubtedly be attracted to you for a very, very long time.
Do not be intimidated by sticking to truth. Why, the ancient Roman and Greek “deity” for truth was a woman. How ironic is that? Trust yourself, and moreover, trust the truth. It will never lead you astray, and attracting men is the least of the bonuses you get from sticking by it.